Child Custody cases and a Mediator: A mediator in a child custody case can be incredibly valuable for a pro per (self-represented) litigant. Here are several ways a mediator can assist:
1. Facilitating Communication
- Neutral Ground: The mediator provides a neutral and safe environment where both parties can communicate openly.
- Structured Dialogue: Helps structure the conversation so each party has a chance to speak without interruption.
2. Reducing Conflict
- De-escalation: The mediator is trained to de-escalate tension and reduce emotional stress.
- Focusing on the Child's Best Interests: Keeps the conversation centered on the child's needs rather than the parents' grievances.
3. Clarifying Legal Concepts
- Explanation of Legal Terms: Mediators can explain complex legal terms and procedures in plain language.
- Guidance on Documentation: They can help ensure that all necessary documents are properly filled out and submitted.
4. Creating a Parenting Plan
- Custom Plans: Assists in developing a parenting plan that works for both parties and is in the best interest of the child.
- Flexibility: Can propose flexible arrangements that might be more acceptable to both parties than a court-imposed solution.
5. Cost and Time Efficiency
- Lower Costs: Mediation is typically less expensive than a full court trial.
- Time Savings: It can resolve disputes more quickly than going through a prolonged court process.
6. Empowerment and Control
- Self-Determination: Allows both parties to have a say in the outcome rather than leaving decisions solely to the judge.
- Informed Decisions: Helps both parties make informed decisions by understanding the potential outcomes and implications.
7. Improving Post-Divorce Relationships
- Co-Parenting Cooperation: Encourages cooperation and communication, which can improve the co-parenting relationship.
- Conflict Resolution Skills: Teaches conflict resolution skills that can be useful for future disputes.
8. Confidentiality
- Private Discussions: Mediation is confidential, so discussions and agreements are not part of the public record.
In summary, a mediator can provide support, clarity, and a structured process for self-represented litigants, helping them navigate the complexities of child custody cases more effectively and amicably.
Child custody and support forms can be prepared by trained legal assistants. Child custody and support can be an emotional challenge for both the parents and children. In situations involving children it can be less stressful if the case is handled by a mediator. This will allow the parties in a child custody or child support case to talk out their issues. The issues in custody and support can be resolved without a judge. The order for child support and/or custody can be modified and generally serves to meet what is in the best interest of the children.
Child custody can be difficult as it can cause a separation of the children from the only life they've grown to know. Changing a child's living arrangements in a custody matter can also affect the child support that would be given to the parent entitled to support. When making decisions regarding children the children's best interest should always be first priority. Here at Self Help Legal we assist with custody disputes and have a certified mediator who can help the parties find resolutions to those difficult issues.
